Saturday, March 21, 2009

for the love of me...

The sand taught me one thing: "You can't hold too many things, no matter what you do to make them stay, and no matter how much they want to stay, the wind will always blow them away. So learn to let go and choose carefully which you want to stay, because like the sand, only those which are in the center of your palm will last".


Sometimes in our relentness effort to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to beenslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words, for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man who loves you more.

To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back.

Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred and anger you've been keeping in your heart. Do not let the bitterness take away your strenght and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.

You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting something in return. But be careful for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.

Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

playtime after work...




The Raanana Women's Volleyball Team.
It doesn't matter if we win or lose...the important thing is we must do our best and enjoy the game. Goodluck, guys!

we gonna miss you...

Yesterday, I received an sms with a bad news from home. Someone so dear to us, my father's younger brother died of heart attack. Losing someone so young and a very nice man, with a big dream for his family was a very big loss for all of us. As I've said, nothing is permanent in this world. What we have and what we are today, we must to give it back someday...somehow...
We gonna miss you, tito too. May you rest in peace.